That’s right, we said it… the dreaded “B” word, BUDGET! Let’s be honest, most of the time couples have trouble discussing the budget for a wedding, not to mention allocating specific amounts for each vendor. Now we know not everyone is hardwired for spreadsheets, but at the very least these are three general rules to follow.
Rule #1 – What Means the Most Couples need to determine what they consider to be the most important details of a wedding. If you want guests to have a great time and you like to dance, spend the money to get the good DJ. If the dress is the main feature, buy the one that is worth saving to show your grandchildren. Also keep in mind that you cannot recreate the day, so if you want pictures to look back on, allocate enough funds to hire the right photographer; a good photographer will be worth every penny.
Rule #2 – You can’t have it all Plain and simple, there are some things that you may not be able to do as extravagantly as hoped. Unless you are willing to take out a loan or work even more overtime, only splurge on the most important things (see rule #1).
Rule #3 – Learn to Limit A standard Midwest wedding traditionally includes a large bridal party and an even larger guest list. Allow us to be the first to inform you that it is ok to break this tradition; you don’t have to feed the whole town. Limit your ceremony and reception to those closest to you and include those on the extended list by sending them wedding announcements instead.
If you need a form to get started check out our five page Wedding Budget Breakdown. It is also located in our resource area with many other forms, lists and tips.
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